had someone say something and thought "well they can't possibly have meant that" and then thought "what if they did?" and then tied your brain in knots for days wondering what would happen to all of you if you acted on what they may or may not have even been saying in the first place?

And then with all of this wondering and internal brain wittering suddenly had the horrible (if I may quote a person greater than myself) "if you were waiting for the opportune moment...........that was it" thought and got yourself in an almighty muddle and gone over everything they may or may not have said in the history of forever until you don't know if it's bum or breakfast time?

No? 'Cos that's what my brain is doing at the moment.